Staying Positive In An Increasingly Negative World

So I think we can all probably agree that the last 12 months have been a little rough. From the fractious American Presidential campaign to global terrorism and a general sense of fear and anger, planet Earth has surely seen better times. For a travel blogger that’s actually a problem. Writing about travel is fun because it’s an inherently positive experience. Many people consider their vacations and time off as the essential mental pressure valve in an otherwise stressful year. From my point of view, it’s my absolute passion in life and to have the opportunity to explore the planet and share what makes it so great honestly is a dream come true. Lately though, it’s been more challenging than normal. As the world erupts in turmoil, I think it’s slightly tone deaf to ignore current events and instead write a post lauding the benefits of Nutella or something else just as rosey. It just doesn’t feel right and it’s something with which I’ve been struggling for a few weeks. How do I find this balance? Should I find this balance? These and many more are all questions I’ve been trying to wrap my head around lately.

What a good travel blog should be

Although many bloggers lose sight of their core missions, a good travel blog should be a personal reflection on individual journeys and travel experiences around the world. It is not a guidebook. It is not a platform for aspiring models. It is not a platform to score free stuff. Good travel blogs will always be about the individual, their thoughts, their fears, their triumphs and in the process, we learn how to better experience the world by identifying with them. It’s a great platform and when executed properly, can actually do a lot of good in the world. At the same time, most of the travel bloggers I know (myself included) tend to stay fairly positive, and with good reason. Travel is fun and the experiences I enjoy on the road are the reason why I leave home in the first place. It’s not always puppies and unicorns though, and I try to show the balance in the experience, to share the great and not so great. What’s going on now though is different, and it’s made it increasingly harder for me to ignore the politics around the world and instead stay focused on the travel experience itself.

I do not want political commentary from a travel blog. For that, I would go to a political blog, just as I would recipes on a food blog or moody photos of Millennials on a fashion blog. We all have our roles but travel is a little different because it bisects so many other niche groups. An early post on this site was about why I believe it’s important to have a certain base level of political knowledge about any country you visit. Like it or not, but politics greatly shapes and molds our individual travel experiences, even if we don’t realize it. This in turn makes it important to include, although it should never be the sole focus of a good travel blog.

Combatting fear through our connections

It would be easy to share fears about terrorism and how one city is more dangerous than the other. But I firmly believe in so doing, we let fear win. Right now around the world millions are facing a decision and it all revolves around the concept of fear. Do we let our innate suspicions of “the other” take control or do we make the conscious decision to expect the best from other people? It’s somewhat amazing that in a day and age when we can see and learn about anything on the planet, very old feelings of fear and distrust persist, and yet they do. That’s because while we may be exposed to others, we’re not really connecting with them.

In a world where I can be on the other side of the planet in a matter of hours or FaceTime with someone in Outer Mongolia, how is it even possible that in recent decades we’ve become less emotionally interconnected instead of the reverse? That’s really the key of course, emotional interconnectivity, not just economic or political, but feeling connected with people from other places on very personal levels. Technology is in large part to blame for our loss of personal understanding. Watching other tourists travel the world, I see a group of people more interested in getting a dramatic looking selfie to put on Instagram instead of looking around them and actually understanding a new place. I see people tethered to phones when they eat or when they’re in a foreign bar, instead of looking around and striking up a conversation. I’m part of that group too, I’m most certainly to blame, but it’s this subtle shift in the way that we travel that is also in part to blame.

Power of people

The real power of travel is I think the sharing that happens between people. Whether we like it or not, we’re all citizen ambassadors when we leave the country but it’s not a one-sided relationship. Meeting new people, learning about their stories and lives, that is I think the most important part of the travel experience. Through them we begin to better understand their culture and country, most times erasing misconceptions and wrong impressions in the process. While there are certainly outliers, I’ve learned that people are genuinely great almost everywhere in the world and that there is so much more that unites us as humans than what divides us along political lines.

It’s when we fail to connect with other people, whether we travel across our own country or across the planet, that we suffer. It’s also the foundation on which poor understanding of Others is built. It didn’t matter as much 20 or 30 years ago when the outside world didn’t really affect us that much. When there weren’t mass shootings or terrorist acts on our soil, when refugees by the millions didn’t cross borders in search of safety. When individual countries are (mostly) left to their own devices, being as interculturally aware isn’t as necessary. Would it be nice? Sure, but it’s not a predicate for a well-functioning society. Now it is. When bad things happen, whether it’s a flailing economy or terrorism or something else entirely, we as humans have always blamed Others, and that certainly hasn’t changed in the 21st century. It’s such a basic emotion it may be at the heart of the human experience. But that doesn’t mean we have to accept it or stand idly by refusing to change those emotions. How we do that isn’t just by traveling, by experiencing other people, other languages and other cultures, it’s understanding them. There’s a big difference between those two concepts and understanding that difference is key.

Look around and you see a world in turmoil. I’m frightened by the dramatic increase in far right-wing politics in many Western nations, not only because I disagree with the intellectual policy positions they take, but because of the emotional basis of these policies. They are taking advantage of the fear and misunderstanding of huge swathes of the public, preying on us for their own personal gain. The way to combat this isn’t by arguing or yelling, but through education. By taking someone we’re related to or know and sharing with them our life experiences and what we’ve learned from people in other countries. Unless we address the core underpinnings of where our fears are coming from, then nothing will improve. Unless we as a civilization understand that more connects us than separates us, then nothing will improve. Regardless of our own politics or stances, this is all of our collective fault. We have failed each other but luckily there’s still time to correct that mistake. To take our fellow citizens and not try to change their mind about any one thing, but to open it to a world that’s not nearly as small and scary as they may think.